What’s Gotta Stay

Our world is so full of people that go about their day worrying only about themselves, it is refreshing when you come across those that are willing to share of their time and talents with no regard of what they will get in return.  The best way to encourage this in others is to do more of it yourself.

I have the pleasure of knowing many people who are more than willing to help others at the drop of the hat, and every time I stop and recognize what a selfless act they are doing, it encourages me to the same.  Whether it is a simple gift or taking the time to help out with kids (like inviting my kids over when my wife and I are busy juggling plenty of tasks), my family is blessed by the help of neighbors all the time.  More than once I have called upon a friend with greater talents than I in household tasks such as wood working or planning out a project above and beyond my knowledge.  Though I feel obligated to return the favor or compensate them in some fashion, my request is usually shunned.

So when people call upon me to share my talents, I jump at the opportunity whenever I possibly can.  Often it is photography or computer support that I am called on for, but it need not be limited to those things.  Don’t wait to be asked either; typically people will not think to ask out of fear or reluctance to seek help.

Recently my second son started playing football in a pee wee league, which is both challenging and rewarding for him and us.  It is a huge time commitment to just get him to practices and games, so I can hardly fathom the time investment the coaches of his team are making - for no compensation.  Feeling the need to participate at some level, I broke out my new digital video camera and started shooting footage of games.  I edited and shared a highlight reel of the first game online for all the parents.  My reward was the overwhelming thanks all shared back to me at the enjoyment of having such videos.  Now I am getting the support and help of others in making these videos available and the best they can be.  I find it wonderful that my attempt at offering something good has helped bring us together and to do something special for our kids and for each other.  It all pays back in the end.